Wednesday, July 9, 2014

10 Tips for Married Brother



1. Dress up for your wife, look clean and smell good. Just like the husband wants his wife to look nice for him, she also wants her husband to dress up for her too. Remember that the Prophet (sallallahu alayhi wasallam) would always start with Miswak when returning home and always loved the sweetest smells.

2. Use the best names for your wife. Call your wife by the most beloved names to her, and avoid using names that hurt their feelings.

3. Don’t treat her like a fly. We never think about a fly in our daily lives until it ‘bugs’ us. Similarly, a wife will do well all day – which brings no attention from the husband – until she does something to ‘bug’ him. Don’t treat her like this; recognize all the good that she does and focus on that.

4. If you see wrong from your wife, try being silent and do not comment! This is one of the ways the Prophet (sallallahu alayhi wasallam) used when he would see something inappropriate from his wives . It’s a technique that few Muslim men have mastered.

5. Smile at your wife whenever you see her and embrace her often. Smiling is Sadaqah and your wife is not exempt from the Muslim Ummah. Imagine life with her constantly seeing you smiling. Remember also those Ahadith when the Prophet (sallallahu alayhi wasallam) would kiss his wife before leaving for Salaah, even when he was fasting.

6. Thank her for all that she does for you. Then thank her again! Take for example a dinner at your house. She makes the food, cleans the home, and a dozen other tasks to prepare. And sometimes the only acknowledgment she receives is that there needed to be more salt in the soup. Don’t let that be; thank her!

7. Ask her to write down the last ten things you did for her that made her happy. Then go and do them again. It may be hard to recognize what gives your wife pleasure. You don’t have to play a guessing game, ask her and work on repeating those times in your life.

8. Don’t belittle her desires. Comfort her. Sometimes the men may look down upon the requests of their wives. The Prophet (sallallahu alayhi wasallam) set the example for us in an incident when Safiyyah (RA) was crying because, as she said, he had put her on a slow camel. He wiped her tears, comforted her, and brought her the camel.

9. Be humorous and play games with your wife. Look at how the Prophet (saw) would race with his wife Aisha (radiallahu anha) in the desert. When was the last time we did something like that?

10. Always remember the words of Allah’s Messenger (sallallahu alayhi wasallam): ‘The best of you are those who treat their families the best. And I am the best amongst you to my family.’ Try to be the best!



Make dua to Allah ta’ala to make your marriage  long last

Impian

Bertemu dan bersua kita lagi.

Eh.sejak balik kelantan,asyik sempat je update belog. (*tapi tetap tak boleh lawan blogger yang cun meletop.akak maneh yang ketinggalan kebelakang. )


Tengah nak menunggu sambung belajar dkt mana, aku tgh mencari kerja yang aku rasa yang aku patut dan wajib buat., maklumlah selalu aku buat kerja and bila tetiba jobless,eh xda la jobless sbb kdg2 kerja jugak dkt petrosains cuma aku ni nak kena apply jadi cikgu..boleh ke idok ..

nak sambung belajar pun lambat lagi.
intake tahun depan la jawabnya gara gara previous kolej mmg result keluar lmbt.
LAHAAAAI.

em em em. idok ape ye.

waktu jobless ni ,adalah gatal kepala nak buat itu,ini.
antara impian yang aku mmg idam idam sejak kecik(*kecik la sgt. )

Pertama:
1. Nak jadi photographer.(gaya mcm utk wedding ke, untuk event apa2 ke. haaa. smart wehhh . )
2. Nak bukak butik pengantin yang pakej sekali dgn semua siap.(* nama boutique pengantin tu nanti aku fikir)
3.Nak jadi penjahit. emm tp kalau dalam versi modern la kan,org panggil designer. gittuuuhh

em em em.. agak agak impian ni akan tercapai ke tak?
kalau tercapai, mungkin aku kena buat satu satu.
inshaaAllah angan angan mesti ada cuma usaha tu kena lebih.

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All is well!
See you guys to the next entry update okay!

salam ramadhan :)

Ciri ciri lelaki yang berumur



Lelaki berumur / lelaki berusia?

what is your opinion .?
what is your first of view?"

adakah SEKSI? MATANG?

seringkali ini adalah topik yang hangat untuk sesetengah wanita.
dan mungkin jugak antara perbualan dengan kawan kawan aku serta kakak kakak aku?

berumur tak salah.
beza satu tahun ke, 4 tahun ke atau 6 tahun sekalipun,

sebenarnya ia tiada beza,,
Umur itu suatu angka untuk seseorang,

cuma, jika dibandingkan dengan mata kasar..eh. aku pulak yang mcm researcher. haha.
(okay,berbalik kepada topik kita tadi)

lelaki yang lebih berusia ,yang selalu aku jumpa.(*tak perlu jumpa pun depan mata dah ada.. )

cthnya: abang2 aku, kawan2 aku, seniorities aku tuu. 

ada yang act mcm lelaki yang matang.
tapi yang paling worst,'
ACT MCM BUDAK UMUR 11 TAHUN. (*YANG NI AKU HIGHLIGHT SBB ENTAH APA2)


aku memang jenis yang suka lelaki matang,
sebabnya yang jenis matang ni eh.. yang berumur sikit ni memang ada wawasan.

gaya macam WAWASAN 2020.
 haaa. itulah kiranya mcm boleh jadi pemimpin .

ciri ciri lelaki yang berumur.
1. MATANG
2.SEKSI(dari segi minda & fikiran. OHMYGOD!hehe)
3.BERWAWASAN
4.COOL(yang ni paling setuju . )
5.BERFIKIRAN JAUHHHHHHHHHHH(jauh ke negara woodland .eh ke bulan)
6.GAYA PERSIS CIRI CIRI BAPA MITHALI( SESUAI SGT NAK JADI BAKAL SUAMI. EHHH)







aku ni bukan nak condemn laki laki yang sama umur ke apa ke.
cuma, yelaa.
dari pengakuan member2 aku yang sebaya,
diorang ckp, "THEY